Miss Marilyn Darlings Life: November 2020

Monday, November 23, 2020

Colorverse Tango

this lady is having a problem with a lady she took in

so this lady moves into this ladys house and her kid breaks something in her house and she says oh its ok ... well its not ok first of all she should have told her off right then and there that no its not ok to go around breaking things and nipped it in the bud but ... to go and tell someone that if they dont like someone to kick them out of the house right before thanksgiving is irrisponsible and down right mean and right before thanksgiving i mean no time really is a good time to tell someone you want to leave their house but ... better councel should be warented .... giving someone altamadems is no way to run a friendship ... setting boundries is important fixing a wrong when it happens is a way to build up trust and understanding of clear cut rules ... and things are going to get broke there are just physics that happen that not everybody has control over and if you think you have absolute control over everything let me tell you YOU ARE WRONG ... there will be broken dishes there will be broken lamps there will be broken glasses it happens and kids are young and they dont understand the value of things because their toys havnt been violated they havnt lived a life they dont how to assign meaning to items ... but to tell someone that their not somebodies problem and to kick them out RIGHT NOW LIKE SERIOUSLY you have never been kicked out of somewhere on your lowest day in your life you obviously have no clue what it is like and you probably never will and that is wonderful for you but if you have never been in that situation you should not speak of the things you have no experiance of how that feels of how that will impact friendship of how that will impact legality ... in california if you accept somebody in your home and they get 1 piece of mail there and they want you to leave they have to get a restraining order and an eviction notice to get them to move out and they can prolongue it for months ..especially if they have nowhere to go and nobody will take them ... you have no idea what its like to have been given a place to stay and have it taken away and it is so damaging to the way people think of you and it is so hurtful .... however clear set rules and warnings need to be given and perhaps it isnt a good fit and perhaps they do need to seek other places to live but giving them a week to move out is rediculous nobody can move out that fast it takes great planning and time and money to move ... and it is stressful and there is crying involved and especially if you really liked where you have a place to lay your head you have no idea how hard it is and i hope you never do

so a person i watch tells her that she thinks she should just kick her out

untill youve barried a parent you wont understand how hard a holiday a death day or a birthday or any day is without one

I must be a psychopath because my mother was a drunk and my father beat me ... and im glad both of them are dead .... however If my adopted mother passed away I would cry for a month and if my adopted father passed away I would probably die those people gave me meaning in life and what life was really about giving and being greatful and the meaning of what family means and also what friendship is and how to love and be loved and I am not saying this to say that parents arent important I loved them very much but I hate them equally as much because they were horrible parents